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I love this post, Aimee. and sweet Matt!!!

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This made me all teary. My husband is an illuminator too. I'm so grateful. And so much of this hit so many tender spots... so I feel seen :)

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Loved this, Aimee! Your husband sounds like a gem. I love the idea of being an illuminator in conversations rather than a diminisher. Definitely something to strive for. I'll be thinking about the last time I felt seen (or, rather 'beheld'—such a great word).

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Loves this post, Aimee! I listen to Kate Bowler but haven’t played that one yet. I also bike and kayak and have been dealing with pain (but only for a year...hopefully to be eliminated soon with surgery). I hope your healing continues and you can more fully enjoy ALL you are doing! (Which is a lot.) I’m seeing you without really knowing you and can agree with your husband’s words. You’re a beautiful person.

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This is one of my favorites. I love that Matt sees you and loves you for all of it. And I agree that Beth is also an illuminator. Definitely. It's so nice to have people in your life who speak truth to you about who you are. It's good to have a voice that is contradictory to the lies that we tell ourselves.

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Your writing is beautiful and tender. You write like a friend along the way. I’m glad to have found you here. And I think people value your writing because, in a way, that kindred way you make them feel is a form of being seen and understood. ❤️

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Dec 5, 2023Liked by Aimee Guest

beautiful, beautiful. I could have written your few lines about not being seen myself. This will prompt me to reflect on when I have been. thank you.

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